So guys. As time goes by, how are you treating your girl?
Last weekend was our anniversary. Apparently someone forgot about the whole thing, even though I reminded him days before it. OK la nvm. I’m not so into it also. Actually all I wanted was just a simple ‘Happy Anniversary’.
Anyway.
I was doing some reflections – I always do reflections – and it’s actually quite funny to see how things change as time goes by. Here are a few examples.
Before: He used to drive all the way from his place to pick me up early in the morning and we went to Botanical Garden for a nice morning walk. After sending me home, he would then change and get ready for work.
Now: No matter how many times I beg, I don’t get a morning walk – Xiao Bi is also not getting one for sure. The only time we get to walk is either on Valentine’s or my birthday. OK la better than nothing. Twice a year for a healthy body.
Before: He used to be very happy if I were to organise a hiking trip.
Now: The only response I got was, no response = don’t want la…
Before: He used to enjoy doing things together with me. Just anything. We just like to share experiences.
Now: “Why must two persons do something that can be done by one person?”
Before: We used to talk a lot. Non-stop basically. We share laughters and tears, and we laughed at each other. We gossiped, too.
Now: He looks at his computer most of the time, even on dining table! That’s his mistress I supposed.
Before: He used to hold my hand while driving.
Now: Yeap he is still doing it at times. :)
Before: He knew I always forgot to drink water and he never forgot to remind me to drink more water.
Now: “Did you drink water? Drink more!” :)
Before: He used to turn off the fan whenever I started sneezing. I have a weak respiration system.
Now: Although sometimes I’ll get ‘eh go turn off the fan la if you are cold’, but yeah basically he is still doing it most of the time. :)
Before: He would always make sure I ate enough. He bought me supper – yeah not a healthy thing but I like it.
Now: Yeap I still get an SMS to see if I need any nice food for supper at night. :)
The list can go on and on but I think I should stop here before I get my ass kicked. lol. My relationship is 2 years old and it’s growing into something like this. I shall do another reflection exactly 2 years from now and see how/what it’s growing into.
Guys, make sure you know as time goes by, how you are treating your girl. Girls do reflections, you know. ;)
